How My Facial Turned Into A 2 Hour Long Sales Pitch!

UPDATE!!! There’s been a turn of events and the beauty salon (who we shall not name) but we’ll call them COMPANY X has decided to take legal action against me, they want to sue me for defamation because apparently what I’ve written in my blog post is untrue despite supporting evidence of other women’s reviews.

I’ve removed their name from my posts up until such time that I get the green light from the law (and I will!)

What ever happened to free speech? What ever happened to giving an honest review? Why are you so intimidated by the truth? #TruthHurts

Here is what their solicitors sent to me:


Dear Tarryn

I refer to our telephone conversation a moment ago.

As discussed, I act on behalf the COMPANY X and I write in relation to your recent posts on your blog and other social media.

My client considers those publications defamatory and as I explained on the telephone they must be all removed from publication by 12 Noon tomorrow. If they are not, I shall follow up with a formal pre-action letter and I anticipate Court proceedings swiftly following.

In the event of Court proceedings, my client will not only seek an Order requiring you to remove the offending posts, but also seek all its financial losses from you as a result of your defamation. I am still considering with my client the level of such losses, but my initial investigations show that they could be considerable.

I will also require a written apology on each and every outlet where you have published these defamatory comments. Please confirm you will provide this apology and I shall provide you with the wording (again by 12 Noon tomorrow).

Finally, in the event that Court proceedings are issued, I hereby reserve the right to reference this communication and our telephone call to the Court on the question of costs and conduct, as and when appropriate. For the avoidance of doubt, I shall seek an Order that you pay my client’s legal costs.

Kind regards.

Yours sincerely

Dickhead Solicitors


And this is how I responded:

Hi Dickhead Solicitors

Unfortunately for your client, my review is only defamatory if based on untrue facts and as there are other reviews just like mine, there’s reason to doubt that what I wrote is untrue. 

Also it would be difficult for them to prove that they had a loss of income due to my blog post as there are so many bad reviews about them posted very recently in a short space of time. Is there anything else your client would like to think up?

There are even people contacting me to go into COMPANY X undercover with hidden cameras to obtain camera footage of what actually happens to support my evidence. 

Also I am currently in talks with Trustpilot.com to obtain the contact details of the women who have posted bad reviews and I will endeavour to get their testimonies to further support my case. 

In the meantime, I will remove their association to my blog post and social media accounts but I will NOT be removing the post from my website. They will have no mention on my social media up until such time that I’ve gathered all testimonies and evidence as well as additional information on social media law. 

They will not be receiving an apology from me. 

I would like my money refunded in full. 

I must also have you know that I feel extremely traumatized by my experience at COMPANY X and as I believe this is a suable offense too. 

Thanks

Tarryn


It’s been a while since I have pampered myself. Having just moved to London 5 months ago it’s been needless to say a little crazy and I must admit that I’ve been neglecting my beauty spoils a bit. Not only that but let’s get real, good beauty treatments come at a price, UNLESS you buy an almost too-good-to-be-true voucher from a promoted sales ad on Facebook, right?

You know how they say when something looks too good to be true then it probably is. There is nothing more truer than these words. Let me tell you a little story about how I unknowingly got caught up in one of the biggest sales gimmicks I’ve ever seen, I’d even go as far as to say that its on the same level as those World Ventures “You Should Be Here” pyramid schemes…

One day browsing through Facebook I saw one of those sponsored posts come up on my timeline where you could get an oxygen facial worth £200 for just £20! I wish I could remember what the name of the Facebook page was promoting it so that I could mention it over here… Obviously my initial reaction was what a great deal it was and that I wasn’t going to resist taking this offer. A lot of the times new brands or companies reduce their prices significantly in order to get their name out there and build a reputation which is why I didn’t look too much into it at the time. I also had a quick browse on their website and they seemed pretty legit.

When I got there the therapist said that I first needed to pay for my treatment before I received my facial. I was then escorted to a “back office” type room where I sat across from a gentleman who processed my payment. I didn’t think too much of it at the time but to think of it now it was more of an “accounts” department. Every beauty salon I’ve ever been to processed their payments in the front by reception AFTER your treatment was done which made me question how this salon runs their business.

Once payment was completed off I went for my facial! The therapist explained that they would first do the one side of my face so that we could put my skin under a microscope to compare how my untreated skin looked compared to the treated side. Already red lights started going off as this is NOT how facials usually go and all I could think was: Bitch, just finish my damn facial already! Despite my increasing annoyance with how my time was being wasted, I let this therapist have her fun.

We then went to another room where the microscope equipment was, before I even sat down the woman operating the machine says: Wow I can see you have an instant eye lift! Little did this poor woman know that my left eyebrow is slightly higher and more arched than my right eyebrow making it look lifted… I feel like she’s in on it too and is encouraged to tell clients how she’s noticed an instant improvement on the treated half of your face. You know, it just adds to their bullshit approach. So first she put my untreated side of my face under the microscope which ran through their very own skin analysis system and obviously my skin was in an absolute terrible condition. According to their skin analysis my skin looked a lot older than my actual age. Then we put the treated side under the microscope and to my shock and amazement my skin looked much better hydrated and youthful! WOW I can’t actually believe they thought I was that stupid to believe their computerized skin analysis system was telling the truth! We all know that it’s built that way to make it look as though their skincare products are miraculous…

Once that was done we went back to the treatment room where the actual sales bullying started, well it felt like that to me in my opinion. My therapist began telling me about this skincare program that they have for me that will combat all my skincare problems.

Me: Wonderful! How much does it cost?

Her: 3000 pounds.

Me: Uhm, excuse me?

Her: Yeah but its such a good investment for your skin and it will last you an entire year.

Me: I cant really afford that so I’m going to say no.

Her: Well what if I could reduce the price for you? Because you’re one of the lucky ones chosen out of thousands of woman that showed an interest in this promotion, how about we give it to you for 2100 pounds

Me: Still, again, I cant afford that sorry

Her: Well how about we split the payment for you over 12 months. We can allow you to pay it off interest free and it will only end up costing you x amount per month *see where the back-office department comes in now*

Me: I just came for a facial, I had no intention on purchasing anything today, and really, I only just started working so I cant say right now whether I can fit this monthly payment into my budget.

Her: You know what Tarryn, this isn’t a usual thing that we do but because you are really passionate about your skincare and we believe these products will definitely solve all your problems, we’ll give you a further discount AND allow you to pay it over 24 months

Me: So basically I’m going to be paying for products over 2 years but the products are only going to last me 1 year? So I’ll be paying for something for a whole year even when its finished?

Her: Yes but the results last for at least 3 years

Me: Hmm, again, as I mentioned before, I’m not here to buy anything today. I just came for my facial.

Her: Let me go get my manager quickly

Me: *thinking* FFS I know the “call my manager for a better deal” trick

Manager: So I believe you’re interested in what our products can do for your skin… I’m prepared to give you my managers discount, with extra treatments and a smaller deposit to pay. In that way its only going to cost you x amount per month which really isn’t too bad.

Me: As I’ve just mentioned to Miss Therapist, I just came for a facial today and didn’t plan on buying anything. I’ll go home and I’ll have a think about it but I will not be making any decisions today thank you.

After fighting off this manager and therapist for what felt like ages, the manager eventually leaves the room so that the therapist can finish up the other half of my facial. In addition to that, I could see an immediate change in attitude in my therapist and I felt like the other half of my facial was done very half-heartedly with little to no effort from her side. Now I’ve had my fair share of facials before and they usually last between 35-45 minutes and then you’re out. My facial at COMPANY X went on for a solid 2 hours. In my opinion it felt like 2 hours of constant aggressive bullying into buying their products and a complete waste of my time and money. And here’s a truth bomb – the facial wasn’t even great!

Little did they know, I’ve worked in cold hard sales before and I know every trick, every way how to handle an objection and pretty much every page in the book so I could see all the warning signs that I was only there for the sales pitch. I actually don’t even think they give a shit about the treatments for their clients, I think they mainly just focus on product sales in order to run a profitable business. Unfortunately for some clients they don’t have the same sales knowledge as me and have been caught up in this aggressive sales technique. After feeling very disappointed in what had happened that evening, I went home and started researching reviews on COMPANY X and what I found I couldn’t have been prepared for. Here are some very recent reviews from past clients:






I noticed that a lot of reviews were either reported by COMPANY X (probably because others had called them out on their bullshit too) so those reviews were not visible, or the review was updated to a 5 star rating. Again probably due to aggressive persuasion from COMPANY X. Or in this case the bad reviews actually stayed up because there is some truth behind the situation. They even reported my review on Trustpilot.com but after sending Trustpilot my proof of payment they put my review back on as they could see that I was a paying customer despite COMPANY X claiming that I wasn’t.

Either way I don’t agree with the way COMPANY X promotes their products to their clients and if they really wanted to push for product sales then they should send reps out into the market to promote their brand instead of bullying paying customers that just want a relaxing facial. I actually walked out there feeling stressed as I had to fight them off at least 5 times before I could finish my facial. Call it what you want – intelligent selling, aggressive marketing, whatever you want. After my experience at COMPANY X they’ve definitely lost my respect and if they continue the way that they are they’ll soon run their reputation into the ground too.

DISCLAIMER: As my rights state, I have the right to express my true and honest opinion where it acts on the matter of public interest as per The Defamation Act 2013: http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2013/26/contents/enacted

XOXO

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A Shout Out To Black Coffee

Nah fam I’m not talking about the main lifeline of everyone’s morning, I’m talking about world renowned, multi-award winning DJ and record producer Black Coffee. Oh did I mention hes from South Africa?

Lately there’s been so much negativity emerging around South Africa and I think its about time that we start recognizing the good about my home country, more so how the South African music industry is just growing on an international scale. A few years ago it would be something rare to hear of a local DJ being awarded international music awards let alone hear them playing on radio anywhere but South Africa. For those of you that still don’t know I moved to London two and a half months ago and one day I was sitting in a bar watching the sunset (yeah London has sunsets too) and suddenly I hear Black Coffee and Shekhinah’s “Your Eyes” come on! It was then that I realized how established he has become in the music industry!

Okay no I lie, the moment I really realized he had become huge was when I learnt that he would be playing at the world’s biggest music festival, Tomorrowland! TOMORROWLAND! Correct me if I’m wrong but as far as I know he would be the very first South African DJ to be playing at a Tomorrowland, do you even know what a huge deal that is?! I remember my friend JP and I still sat around one day after we successfully managed to purchase our Tomorrowland tickets and still joked by saying imagine if Black Coffee were there. Low and behold a month later the DJ announcement was made and who was there… none other than Mr Real Black Coffee.

Apart from that he’s also played at festivals such as Ultra South Africa, FabricLive, BPM Festival, Ballantines’ Boiler Room Stay True, Sonar Barcelona, Mixmag Live, SW4, an 8-date North American tour and also did a world tour in 2015 which spanned 17 countries across 4 continents over 5 months. Now this is someone who’s left arm was left completely paralyzed in 1990 after an unfortunate car accident but in no way did that deter him from going after what he wanted the most and doing what he loves. To be honest he’s that good that I didn’t even know about his accident up until a few months ago. What a freaking legend and inspiration! So the next time you think you can’t do something, just remember that there are people out there that are doing a lot more with a lot less and they’re killing it – let that sink in.

So Nkosinathi, if you’re reading this, please know that JP and I will be flying our South African flags very high at Tomorrowland! We hope you’ll see us and even give us meet and greet while we’re there *hint-hint* 🙂 #ISeeYou

 

 

 

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I Went On My First Tinder Date!

If you had to ask any of my friends what Tarryn thinks about Tinder, they’d probably just laugh in your face and ask you to tell another joke, that’s how much of a disliking I have towards the app that seems to be taking over the traditional way of dating these days.

During December myself and a few friends had a few drinks and naturally we thought it would be cool idea to do something fun. Like create a Tinder account for myself! That poor account only lasted a mere 10 days. Douchebag upon douchebag graced the screen of my phone, not to mention the fuckboys that I already knew personally who were on there too. I decided to delete my account and try to meet guys the old fashioned way. Either way it wouldn’t have mattered if I had met someone as I had planned to leave the country in 3 months anyway.

On the 28th of March I arrived in my new home town, London. London is an amazing place filled with so many interesting people to meet and being a newbie to this big city (and upon recommendation from a friend) I decided to give good ‘ol Tinder one last go! But this time not for the purpose of dating someone because let’s get real here – a girl needs to get her shit together in a new country before even thinking about engaging in a relationship! I genuinely wanted to make some friends and meet cool and like-minded people who wouldn’t mind showing me awesome places and introducing me to good people.

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So I matched with this guy. Tall, dark hair, really he was my type but I promised myself that we were only going to be friends. We chatted for a day and decided to meet up and go for drinks the following night. The night actually went really well, no weird sexual passes from him that would ultimately make me run for the hills, he was actually really nice! So nice that we decided to go out the next night as well. We started off with some chilled drinks and then went to a more vibey scene so we ended up in a club in London. It was a fun night, we actually kissed a few times (yeah I know against my rules) and then the unthinkable happened,  my drink got spiked!

Thank goodness I’m okay and nothing terrible happened to me! But can you believe that? One minute I was fine and the next minute I could just about stand on my own two feet! It is scary to think now what had happened to me but it did and I can only just learn from the situation. The next thing I remember was getting out of a cab and throwing up alongside the road while this guy is holding back my hair. You can just about imagine my embarrassment! Long story short, I ended up passing out at this guy’s place, a person who I had only known for 2 days, woke up the next morning thinking what the fuck just happened. I’m not sure whether I should feel grateful that he was nice enough to help me or ashamed that something like that happened to me.

I don’t think it was the guy that spiked my drink though, but you never really know. There were a few times that I left my drink unattended throughout the night so it could really just be anyone. I’m not used to having to keep a close eye on my drinks as everyone in Cape Town is usually stingy with their drugs anyway. But jokes aside, lesson learnt!

Just as you thought that was the worst of it, I ended up having drinks with him a week later again. This time a lot more chilled. He introduced me to a good friend of his, we had wine and chatted. Obviously I apologized profusely about my behavior the previous week and he seemed to be understanding. But this is where the story gets interesting again.

His friend ends up messaging me like 2 days later suggesting we go out for a drink. My initial reaction was to say, hey like is your friend (Tinder guy) okay with it? Like I wouldn’t go have drinks with someone who my friend went out on a Tinder date with but that’s just me. He’s response was that he had asked the Tinder guy and he’s okay with it. Now I’m thinking what the hell is going on here?! Is Tinder guy passing me onto his friends? What a douchebag if he did!

After a few mojito’s I put on my brave-girl pants and decided to ask the Tinder guy if he’s giving his friends passes to go out with me. Turns out he’s friend didn’t ask him if he’s okay with it, but at the same time saying if I wanted to then he’s fine with it. So either his friend made a dick-move by going behind his back asking to hang out with me or Tinder guy is lying and is passing me off to his friends! Which leads me to my next assumption, do these guys work on a tag-team basis where the one reels the girl in from Tinder and then if he doesn’t like her hands her over to his friend?! My goodness! Tinder is a fucking dark world and anyone willing to go down that road goes at their own risk. I’m too nice for this shit! Since then, Tinder guy has ghosted me so I’m assuming that my gut feeling was right about them all along.

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Now let’s get one thing straight – Tinder is not the place to make friends. I repeat: TINDER IS NOT THE PLACE TO MAKE FRIENDS! Sure if you’re open to hanging out with a fuckboy then Tinder is right up your alley but as far as friends go, forget about it! They may tell you that they’re not in it for the sex or they also just want to be friends but truth be told, they’re telling 15 other matches on their profile the same thing!

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I’ve spoken to a couple of guys over the last few weeks about their Tinder use and did you know that when they swipe right on someone, they’re not even looking at the girls profile, in fact they’re not even looking at their phone! They’re busy with something else while their one hand is occupied with just swiping to the right. The way I found this out was a friend of mine handed over his phone to me to ask if I could swipe on a few girls on his Tinder. So just as I tried to swipe right I got this pop-up message saying that he had exceeded his number of swipes and would need to wait 4 hours to swipe right on someone again. Clearly a message I’ve never seen before but he had explained to me that that’s just how guys use Tinder.

Another guy I spoke to showed me that he did the same thing. Except this guy is married. MARRIED! His excuse was that he’s going through a divorce so that justifies his Tinder use. Imagine you going out on a date with someone, not knowing at all that he has a wife and kids waiting for him back home?? And you’ll never know because they’ll never tell you! Guys are dogs! Just like they’ll never tell you that they only use Tinder for sex!

And then the old classic, the day my ex-boyfriend matched with one of my friends on Tinder probably not knowing that me and her were friends. He portrayed to be the most amazing person on Tinder but none of the girls he was chatting up knew how abusive he was towards me. So how many more narcissistic, abusive douchebags troll the likes of online dating apps? Do I want to find out? No!

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Ladies, Tinder is nothing more than modern day prostitution in my opinion. Instead of a guy paying $$$$ on prostitution where he might run the risk of getting locked up where its illegal, why not just get on Tinder, take her for a few drinks, take her home and then seal the deal? Ever noticed how they’ll NEVER let you pay for anything? It’s because they’re “paying” you to put out later…

I fully understand that there are happy endings with some Tinder stories. A very good friend of mine is now actually dating someone who she met on Tinder and she’s happy so I’m happy for her. Yes they had to overcome a few hurdles to get where they are. I’m just not sure whether I could be with someone who might or might not be chatting up girls on Tinder while with you. That’s always a risk you take when you date someone from the online dating world I suppose.

There’s a saying that goes: “It’s not your girl, it’s just your turn” well here’s something: “A Tinder guy is everyone’s guy”.

Let that sink in.

 

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Essence Bloggers Beauty Secrets

Yayyyy I can finally share my thoughts on the new Essence Bloggers Beauty Secrets trend edition makeup palettes! I was given a “The Glow Must Go On” palette last year April and was sworn to secrecy to not spill the beans on this amazing trend edition until they officially launched in our stores.

I was so happy to see that Essence have done a collaboration with a few of their favorite influencers as that seems to be the trend these days where brands do co-labs with bloggers/YouTubers. I really hope that they continue with this even if it means doing a collaboration once a year as part of a trend edition. It’s a great opportunity for an Essence Cosmetics addict (like myself – hint hint Cosnova) 🙂 to be able to work closely with their favorite makeup brand on something that’s inspired by yourself and something that will appeal to your  followers.

Each blogger got to develop their own unique palette which came with a matching nail polish. The palette I got was developed by Serena from Beautylab.nl, a Dutch beauty who blogs about beauty, fashion, lifestyle trends and her travels. When I first laid my eyes on all the new palettes I knew immediately that I was going to grab the bronzing and highlighting one and I’m so glad I did.

The palette comes with a trio shimmer bronzer, a highlighter, 2 eyeshadows and a brush applicator. The packaging is made of strong hardboard and is magnetically sealed so you don’t need to stress about it flipping open if traveling with it. There’s also a decent sized mirror inside.

Not surprising but the trio bronzer is the star of the show here! The combination of rose gold, copper gold and bronzy gold make up the perfect shimmering bronzer that’s ideal for a summers night out. The highlighter for me was also nice as it has a gold undertone, however I felt that it was a bit too light for my skin tone so I’ll probably end up mixing the highlighter and the bronzer and use that as a highlighter. The eyeshadows weren’t as pigmented as I’d hoped, especially the burnt orange shade – I had high hopes for that one but I didn’t mind as I picked this palette for the bronzer and highlighter anyway.

There were also 3 other palette & polish combo’s developed by 3 more beauties – take a look at them here:

These palettes retail for R104.95 and the nail polishes for R34.95 at Dischem stores nationwide, while stocks last.

XOXO

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Why I Love Neutrogena Hydro Boost

Ever since turning 27 I’ve been noticing how my skin has been losing so much of its moisture. I remember I used to complain all the time about my oily skin but if I think about it now, oily skin is moisturized skin and moisturized skin means a slower premature ageing process so now instead of having to worry about a shiny complexion now I have pesky fine lines and wrinkles to worry about. It was high time that I upped my skincare routine to accommodate my now mature skin and Neutrogena Hydro Boost could not have come at a better time.

It’s no surprise that the dashing Nicole Kidman has just joined Neutrogena as their global brand ambassador, she exudes elegance, class and exquisiteness and she fills the role just perfectly. When Neutrogena launched the new Hydro Boost range it caught my attention immediately as I soon learnt that this new range of products contained Hyaluronic Acid. I’ve previously learnt about Hyaluronic Acid from past beauty events that I’ve attended and to explain what it is, is that its naturally found in our own skin and it helps to hydrate. Basically its acts like a sponge for dehydrated skin and can absorb up to 1000 times its weight in water. Hyaluronic Acid is also found in many anti-wrinkle beauty creams but often the quantity is not nearly enough to see results.

As mentioned above, I’ve had to change up my skincare routine to suit my new skincare needs. It’s important that your skincare routine changes as you change to ensure it gets the hydration and care that it needs. Below I’ve briefly highlighted what I thought of each product (spoiler -I didn’t like them all)

Hydro Boost Facial Cleaner Wipes – R99.95

I thoroughly enjoyed the facial wipes and it saved me on many late nights when I was far too tired to do an entire facial cleanse. The great thing about these wipes is that it’s a very thick wipe so it feels as though you’re cleaning your face with a proper face cloth which is nice. It smells just like the micellar water and the water gel pot and if I had to describe the scent it’s a subtle fruity scent which I liked very much. It’s infused with a fresh cleansing lotion which effortlessly glides over the face and eyes. I’ll be purchasing this again.

Hydro Boost Water Gel and Gel-Cream – R139.95

Water Gel: The Hydro Boost Water Gel is another product from the range that I will be repurchasing. It has a slightly blue tint and smells fresh and fruity. I liked how it blends so quickly into your skin and you don’t have to rub or blend it in as your skin just absorbs the product. It’s lightweight and oil free.

Gel-Cream: This is a rich gel for intense hydration and recommended for extra dry skin. I personally didn’t enjoy this one as much and it felt almost exactly the same on my skin as the water-gel so it didn’t feel like there was much of a difference. It didn’t feel like it provided any more hydration than the Water Gel  and its fragrance free. I doubt I’ll be purchasing this.

Hydro Boost Water Gel Cleanser and Micellar Water – R99.95

Water Gel Cleanser: This was probably my least favorite from the range as I felt that it didn’t lather enough to feel like I’m getting a proper face cleanse. I’m used to getting that nice soapy face wash and I didn’t get that from this facial cleanser. It is suitable for sensitive skin and Paraben-Free.

Micellar Water: Another winner from the Hydro Boost range is definitely the Micellar Water. I know you can use this to wipe makeup off directly with no cleansing but I use this to clean off any excess makeup that I didn’t get to during my face wash. It didn’t burn my eyes at all and it helps in boosting skin hydration. My bottle is just about empty so definitely refilling up on this one.

I’ve happily converted over to the Neutrogena Hydro Boost range and if anything I will continue to buy and use the Wet Wipes, Water Gel and Micellar Water as those worked best for me. With me moving to the UK in just over a month’s time it’s going to be crucial to keep my skin happy and hydrated in those weather conditions so I’m really glad that I’ve found these products and I’m definitely taking a bulk supply over with me.

I had no bad skin reactions and this product is suited for sensitive skin types. Happy to recommend this range to anybody that often has bad reactions to skincare products or someone with dry skin. I’ve been using this for just over 2 months and couldn’t be more impressed.

XOXO

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Life Update

I’m baaaack! In case you guys were wondering where I was hiding, I was taking a well deserved social media detox, spending time with family and just getting my plans for 2017 sorted. 2016 was a year that showed me exactly in which direction I wanted to go and where I want to be. It showed me that even with my fear of flying, I have such a desire to travel and meet new people and get to know different cultures. Which is why I resigned from my job last Wednesday and decided to move to the United Kingdom.

“You must be so excited” which is what a lot of people have been telling me. To be honest, I’m not that excited… If you know me personally you’d know that I hate South African winters, let alone freezing cold, snow filled European winters. As I write this I’m laying on a lounger next to the pool in 27 degree weather at The Bay Hotel. Besides the weather putting a damper on things I then still have to deal with the implications of Brexit, finding a job as soon as I get there because companies in the UK don’t want to employ me if I’m not there, finding a place to live, having to deal with snotty British people and having no friends and family.

“Then why are you going?!” …you must be thinking. Well let me see… It’s a mix up of many different things but mostly for personal and career development, to be able to travel whilst I’m still young, to build my career and then maybe, just maybe find someone to marry along the way too. After being single for nearly my 3rd year I kind of just realized that I don’t think there’s anyone here for me so I’m taking my search abroad. I haven’t been on a single date since my last relationship and I just get the feeling that South African guys in general aren’t interested in me. And that’s okay.

I’ve been asking a lot of people that made the move abroad how their experience was and if they could offer me any sort of advice and many of them had a similar story of being lucky enough to link up with family or a spouse on the other side. It’s always so much easier when you have someone on the other side waiting for you as that helps with your accommodation and also so that you have a safety net to assist you financially until you’ve found employment. I have none of that! I’m going in completely blind, with a lot of hope in my heart and hopefully enough money to keep me afloat for a month. I’m literally just going to wing it. Am I crazy? Possibly. Am I brave? People say so. Am I giving up everything in an attempt to make the most out of my future? Definitely!

The reason why I haven’t been on social media much lately is because I’ve been spending all my free time applying for job after job after job. Sadly with every application comes another application denial. As it looks now, it’s super difficult finding a job and I can only hope that things will turn around as soon as I’m physically in the UK. There’s a few people that I know of that have recently moved to the UK and have been searching for a job for MONTHS! I don’t have months to be looking for a job, this is what makes this ride that much more scary! And as much as I hate to admit it, I can’t see myself taking on one of those shitty jobs that they like to give to South Africans like packing fruit in a factory or working as a night shift security guard. I’ve worked far too hard in my career of choice to succumb to a job that I hate simply because it helps me “get by”.

My biggest fear is that this gamble I’m about to take doesn’t work out in my favor and then I’m left homeless on the icy streets of London WTF! Imagine the headlines: Worlds First Ever Beauty Blogger To Go From Beauty To Hobo. I could cry just thinking about it! But on a more serious note, everyone keeps on telling me that if it doesn’t work out then just come home. For me right now that doesn’t seem like an option. For me that seems like I’ve given up and that my financial sacrifice that I took to move to the UK would all be in vain. Besides that, I come back to nothing and with nothing and would need to start from the bottom up again.

Then there’s Brexit. Let me just quickly explain to you how Brexit affects me. I have dual citizenship with South Africa and Hungary. Hungary is part of the 28 European Union (EU) countries which allows free movement across Europe, well at least until Brexit happens. Britain wants to shut their doors to all EU citizens as soon as Brexit is officially put in place. You guys, Brexit is a real deal problem right now! Am I picking the worst time to go to the UK? Hell yes! I’ve been in contact with a couple of UK recruitment agencies lately and one agency (who’s name I shall not mention) who I asked for job hunting advice came back to me with the following: “there are a lot of candidates looking for work and with the Brexit situation, it will be a tricky year” What’s that even supposed to mean? Are they discriminating against  EU nationals to make them leave the country? Are they xenophobic? Is this why I’m finding such a hard time getting companies to look at my job application???

Then there’s my blog. I’m so worried that I won’t be able to invest much time into my blog. Not only that but it’s also going to take some time getting to know my way around the UK beauty world and to figure out where I should shop for all my essentials. I’ll have to rebuild all my PR connections and networks from scratch. Basically I’ll have to rebuild my entire blog brand and reputation from the bottom up before I can start collaborating with brands that I’m passionate about.

2016 was such a great year for What The Blog, I got featured in 2 mini mags associated with Clicks, I got featured on both the international Instagram pages of Essence Cosmetics and Catrice Cosmetics and I’ve received so much incredible feedback from PR companies commending me on my contribution to their brands. I can only hope that it will continue in the UK and that brands and PR Companies will continue to recognize my contribution to the beauty industry. I have so many plans for my blog for this year including a YouTube channel and I really hope and pray that I’ll be able to follow through with my plans and achieve my goals.

Side Note: I have no intention of discontinuing my blog whatsoever.

If I wasn’t humble before, I sure am going to have to humble myself with this move. I could possibly face tough times ahead but if it all works out then I sure am guaranteed amazing opportunities and adventures in the years to come! Once I’m all settled in then blogging will revert back to business as usual so don’t think that I’m going to forget about you guys that easily! Giveaways will still be extended to my South African family (you) and I hope you continue to follow my adventures on social media.

Also if you have any friends or family in the UK that would be willing to help me ease into my new hometown, show me around or someone that knows of someone that knows of another person who has tons of connections to get me a rad job, then also give me a shout 🙂

XOXO

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John Frieda Frizz Ease Got A Brand New Look

For all the John Frieda Frizz Ease regulars, you may have been wondering where the silver tubed shampoo and conditioner has gone to. Well the entire John Frieda range to be exact, got a brand new revamp and makeover and now sport eye-catching and colorful tubes that represent each unique style.

The new-look John Frieda Frizz Ease shampoo and conditioner was actually the first ever JF products that I used. I liked the shape and size of the tubes, they aren’t too big or too small and fit perfectly into a travel sized bag.

With ground-breaking Frizz Immunity Complex, this revolutionary Shampoo and Conditioner deeply penetrates hair fibers to help combat the porosity of frizzy hair, and builds an internal barrier to build frizz immunity with every use. I also liked that it has pure coconut oil and with continued use, your hair will become increasingly smoother and immune to frizz.

I must also add that this unique shampoo and conditioner was built for medium-thick and wavy-curly hair, but still suitable for all levels of frizz. If however you have hair like mine (fine and flat) then this product may not be the best option for you. I found that my hair lost the lightness and volume that it got from other hair care brands. I actually don’t have frizz prone hair at all but I definitely noticed that my hair seemed more sleek. Well either that or it wasn’t dealing too well with the anti-frizz ingredients…

I more than likely won’t be reaching for the John Frieda Frizz Ease range again because I was one of the lucky ones to be born with boring thin hair and this shampoo and conditioner just makes my hair even more sad 🙁 But the good news is that it definitely works! So if you have frizzy thick hair, you can expect to see results! For everyone else on my side of the fence, there’s still John Frieda Luxurious Volume 🙂

Available at Clicks for R115.00 each.

XOXO

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Protect Your Skin With Lipidol Sunscreen Oil

For those of you that are familiar with Bio-Oil, you’d know that it’s been a tried and tested brand for many years and trusted by many as a rescue remedy for scars and stretchmarks. What you might not have known was that Bio-Oil introduced a sister brand onto the market called Lipidol in 2014 and this fast growing brand is becoming the next big thing to hit the beauty industry.

Here’s what Lipidol has to say about their products: “The skin’s natural way of looking after itself is through the production of oils known as lipids. By using oils in daily skincare you help your skin maintain its natural way of working. The outcome is skin that stays in balance, avoids problems and radiates with good health. The difference between your current skin and your best skin could simply be oil! Lipidol is the world’s first range of oils for daily skincare. It was developed by the makers of Bio-Oil.”

I think Lipidol makes a very valid point in which they encourage feeding your skin what it already produces as opposed to introducing new products that may or may not work with your skin. I’m still very new to this brand and I was so interested to see that they offer a variety of products for every skincare need. I’m most interested in the cleanser and overnight oil as I know for sure that any oil based product that is used to remove makeup works like a charm and I’m also certain that the overnight oil will help replenish oils lost during the day. Night time is the best time to use oils and serums as that’s the optimum time when your skin regenerates.

I recently got sent the sunscreen oil and I was a bit confused with this product at first… I initially thought: If you don’t want your skin to burn, why would you fry it by applying oil all over? There’s a misconception with this product as a lot of the reviews that I’ve read about this, people seem to think that it’s to be used the same way as a sunblock i.e. for when you’re hitting the beach, spending the day by the pool, taking a hike etc. This is more of an everyday oil that creates an invisible barrier that helps to protect not only against the sun, but also against the harsh effects of wind and water.

Because the Lipidol sunscreen oil is only SPF 20, I’d anyway recommend using at least SPF 30 when spending prolonged periods of time in the sun. Since our skin is affected by UVA and UVB rays even when we’re driving in the car or sitting indoors next to a window, it’s still important to use a skin protector and that’s where products like Lipidol sunscreen oil comes in. I mean, who’s going to rub in that white sunblock every, single, day!

WIN: You can win a R1000 cash prize plus a Lipidol hamper, to find out more click here: http://rubybox.co.za/magazine/lipidol-product-watch-last-week-to-enter-the-lipidol/

You can get this at Clicks for R79.95.

XOXO

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